Beauty is not infinite; it cannot last forever. The understanding that something must have an end is what makes it so wonderful. Flowers will always wilt, stars will always fade, a flame will always crackle into embers. Similarly, life must reach its finish. We cling to the fleeting moments because they are special, not because they will last forever.
Read MoreIt has been a long time since Cai was in kindergarten; the lessons absorbed there are amongst the most important and, unfortunately, quickly forgotten. Suppose, at times, we all saw life through the eyes of a young child. In that case, I have a sneaking suspicion we would be a lot happier.
Read MoreCai’s mom, KIMBERLY, loved the Martinmas Lantern Walk celebrated by Waldorf schools in November, which is why we chose to organize one in her memory.
Why did she love it, what is it, what is involved, what do you need to prepare? Read on.
Read More2020 has been an interesting year. COVID-19 has definitely affected our young people. My son Cai recently turned 16.
I must confess I'm worried. I see a different quality etched in his face, and I want him to take a look around. I want him to gain some context.
Read MoreThey say smells trigger the strongest memories. What you notice when you trigger an avalanche are the sounds and a feeling of moving air. I have purposefully triggered a number of them. How else do we know what you are dealing with?
Read MoreI gravitate towards people with kind faces. Folk with eyes that sparkle with the merest excuse and mouths that revert to a grin. I am lured by a good story, one that sucks me in and leads me on an emotional odyssey
Read MoreWant a stigma free tool for dealing with life's issues? Read on.
Read MoreI have been thinking about writing this blog recently… When I write I am often brought to a place of clarity. One where I am able to slot my ideas together.
Read MoreHave you stared into the eyes of an adventurer? They are often as wild as the places they visit. They can also be deep like an ocean. When in this state the owner is often in reverie. Adventurers do dreaming. They do it often. They do it well. And, it serves them advantageously.
Read MoreWhen I look at Cai and his friends I love the sense of potential I see. They are incredible young people. They are all different and they all have something to give to the world. YET…
Read MoreQuandary is a big obstacle. To summit it you have to put one foot in front of the other for 3,500 vertical feet. For a young man who is coming to terms with the way his body is changing, this is a lot. But, isn’t that the point?
Read MoreThe day was incredible. Burn your face off sun and copious snow. There are various possible routes. Given the conditions, John and I opted to go via Sheep Creek. Here is the thing. The following day marked the 6th anniversary of CO’s most tragic avalanche.
Read MoreWe all gain a sense of perspective from true beauty. It settles our breathing and inspires a sense of calm. From this calm we gather resolve to bring more beauty into the world.
Read MoreThese trips into nature where I share an adventure with Cai allow us to be our best possible selves. We have good conversations, we recognize we are each other’s ally and have the other’s best interest at heart.
Read MoreWhen I reflect on my teen years all I can say is I am fortunate to still be here. So now the emphasis is on preparing Cai for his growing independence.
Read MoreI love skiing. It is my favorite activity and it is important to me that Cai carries a torch for it too. I have fantasies of an ancient Wil going out with Cai clicking in and gliding down a mountain.
Read MoreThere is no doubt I love the climate of my adopted home yet I still hold a hankering for those blustery, grey days. The romanticism prevails because I no longer suffer them. What is it about wind blasted brutality that leaves me so uplifted?
Read MoreThere was a spate of large avalanches in Colorado at the beginning of March. Watching the comments on social media leaves me a little sad. The reaction to these tragic accidents is to trigger a base instinct.
Read MoreThere have been 6 avalanche fatalities so far in Colorado this year. It is only March. There is no doubt that winter backcountry exploits involve hazards. Yet, I do not know a set of activities that are more serene or exhilarating while always up-lifting.
Read MoreSt David is the Patron Saint of Wales. Here is a thought to recognize his day. March 1st.
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